Tavish was really, really into soccer this spring. His after-school activity was playing in the "ball pit". It started innocently watching from a distance or sitting on the goalie net. He was, after all, in Junior Kindergarten. The only video I have of this 'scene' is from December when he was still a part of the action, but in an observer's role. He's in the foreground with his back to us in a black coat and toque...
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| The early days of watching soccer |
MOMENT: Gloves Make the Goalie
Spring saw him step out of his observer role and into that of a player once the older kids starting inviting him to play. There was one boy who was an excellent goalie and, apparently, wore goalie gloves. We eventually discovered that Tavish's interest in wearing gloves came from this. At the end of the school day, he'd run out to Lucy so she could hand the gloves over. He loved it in there and he proudly wore his yellow gardening gloves to play soccer with them. They were so well loved that they show their wear...
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| Best goalie gloves ever |
One day, Tavish casually said "someday Mommy, I'd like a
real pair of goalie gloves". To which I naively responded "I thought you have your yellow pair". Clearly, he'd made it awhile before someone made an obvious comment about his gloves because he came back with "but these aren't
real gloves, these are gardening gloves" with a slightly sheepish voice. Aw. I sometime miss the innocence that minimal peer exposure allowed, but it was certain that the yellow gloves with the frogs had seen their final days. Grandma came to town and to his rescue. Here is our proud son in Canadian Tire with the
real gloves already donned even before paying the bill. It was tough to find him without them for most of the summer...
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| Real goalie gloves |
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| "Goalie" gloves, an very day accessory |
One last story corresponding to Tavish's love of soccer and his sweetness. He stumbled upon a pair of hand-me-down dress shoes intended for Keva and tried them on. He liked the sound they made on our wood and tile floors. I consciously said nothing and drew no attention to them. He asked to wear them to school one day and although I'm perfectly comfortable with that, I know that our son likely wouldn't be (see above story of beloved gloves instantly abandoned after an uninvited comment)
and they are several sizes too small for his feet. I replied by saying "they would be fun to have at school, honey, but I'm wondering how comfortable they'd be all day on your feet, let's have a look." Sure enough, he had bright red rings from squeezing his feet in there, so after a short deliberation, he opted to play with them at home instead. I proceeded to find him in our yard kicking the soccer ball all over the place (neighbours yard, alley) wearing these clicky shoes with his trusty gloves. Like all innocent and unexpected choices, it seemed all too short lived. I failed to capture this wonderful moment in time, but I took a photo to aid with the visual reminder of our sweet soccer player-who-could wearing whatever sounded and felt right at that moment...
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| The only uniform he needed at one time... |