Our Room

We are not really a co-sleeping family. Sure, each of our kiddos were either in our bed or in our room through the early months as babies, but for the most part, kids sleep in their kid room, parents sleep in the parent room.

MOMENT: Sleep Shift

When Keva had pneumonia back in late 2017, she understandably made her way into our room in the middle of the night when she wasn't feeling well. It did not take long for it to stop making sense for both parents to be awake listening to her cough in our bed throughout the night, so one of us would retreat to her single bed. That got old after awhile - enter double bed. Somehow this situation morphed into her coming into our room to get Mommy at some point every night (Daddy is a louder sleeper). Sure, there are a few perks for Mommy... like a darker room and a quieter sleep partner for the light sleeping hours of the morning, but I still had my own room with my hubby!

This new 'system' evolved into traveling sleep situations too. Seemed less stressful for Keva to know one of us would be sleeping with her when she was in a new place, so we went with it for those situations.

Flash forward to our drive back from Ottawa this March Break... where Mommy did accompany Keva for sleeping during the night at some point while we were away...

"Mommy! We get to go home! We can sleep together in our room again!"

Our room?! Mommy has her own room with Daddy ... (sigh) Here's to hoping this rings true to make the mobile-Mommy-sleeper worth it...

"Sleeping next to someone you love,

makes you fall asleep faster,

reduces depression,

and helps you live longer."

Halloween 2018

Halloween is a favourite time for the kids in our family, and despite Mommy being at the hospital with Grandpa a lot lately, we were together to celebrate in our traditional spirit! 

MOMENT: Paper Bag Princess & a Man in Black

Keva was Batgirl for the neighbourhood party and for school, but busted out the crown and tattered bag as a the Paper bag Princess for Halloween. Tavish stayed strong as one of two "Men in Black" with his buddy, Riley. The house was decorated, the pumpkin carved, and it wouldn't be Halloween without a visit from the Switch Witch!

https://youtu.be/jIdHm7LCXIo

Saying NO

Keva: Stop! Tavish, stop doing that!

Tavish: No.

(Pause)

Keva: What? Don't say no! 

(Pause)

Keva: I said no to Ms. Pan today... she did NOT like it.

(Ivy gave me a rock and I was supposed to get it back at the end of the day and forgot)

Gratitude Jar, Year 1

We often do "Pit & Cherry" over dinner where we each share and listen to one another reflect on our day through the frame of choosing pits (something we didn't really like) and cherries (things we really like). One evening, in the fall of 2017, it morphed into a conversation about gratitude, and the Gratitude Jar was born!

MOMENTS: Sharing Gratitude

There is no rhyme or reason to when we do the gratitude jar, but works in a similar way as Pit & Cherry: we each share and listen to one another describe something we are grateful for. The only difference is that Mommy writes it down on some scrap paper with the date, and tucks it into a jar.

On the eve of a new school year (grade 4 for Tavish and grade 1 for Keva), we emptied out the gratitude jar and enjoyed reviewing our year of gratitude. We are starting fresh with a new school year, but first want to capture some of last year's highlights:

June 27
Tavish- grateful that Mme Ehrhardt chose me to be in her class again
Keva- grateful for rain: watching it, touching it, and for plants

October ?
Tavish- grateful that I'm in a band with my friends
Keva- grateful for Amy picking me up

Nov 11
Daddy- grateful for lots of things, but mostly Mommy's assistance so I can have a nap on the chair.
Keva- grateful for when I went to Amelia Ing's birthday party

Nov 18
Tavish- grateful for practicing hockey in the basement with Daddy and for swimming.
Keva- grateful we got to go swimming and to the grocery store

Dec 2
Mommy- grateful for weekends so we can hang out together as a family.
Keva- grateful because I get to have a bath.
Tavish- grateful because now I can shoot the puck higher and skate at Greenwood with Ahmed
Daddy- grateful for a nice day to clean up the back yard.

Dec 9
Tavish- grateful that Grandpa and Penny are visiting; that there is hockey tomorrow; for trying muscles; for getting a yummy drink
Grandpa Mike- grateful that we are all healthy, we walked up and down a big hill together!
Keva- grateful that we coloured on boxes; we are having this dinner; and that Penny & Grandpa are over!

Jan 8
Daddy- grateful that Grandma & Grandpa let us stay at their place for 2 weeks.
Keva- grateful to be back home and doing stuff (dinner and video games) but a bit sad though that Christmas is done

Jan 29
Tavish- grateful for Grandpa & Grandma getting to be here for a few days; for going to hockey practice with Zack's team; playing a game of hockey; batting practice; and eating shawarma
Grandpa Mike- grateful that Penny can go anywhere - fits everywhere we take her
Grandpa Mel- grateful for family. All of it. And for the kids in my life.
Keva- grateful for taking Penny for a walk
Grandma- grateful for this quick trip to Toronto that is so much fun and being with family and seeing Tavish make his own goal!

Feb 13
Daddy- grateful to have dinner as a family because I like getting to eat and chat with your guys
Tavish- is grateful for getting Grandma & Grandpa's cards (Valentine's Day) and for eating pancakes for dinner tonight.

Feb 27
Keva- grateful for having Taco Tuesday. Also, I liked serving dessert with Daddy and having Penny.
Tavish- grateful that we got mango sorbet and for getting a ride on Daddy's bike to school...and for Taco Tuesdays and having Penny.

March 28
Tavish- grateful that Easter is coming; that I got an Easter and birthday card from Grandma; that Riley came over; that I got to try a new game at Grandpa's
Keva- grateful because I like the weather today and that's all

April 27
Tavish- grateful that Daddy picked me up at school and that I have baseball practice and got to play at Riley's
Daddy- grateful to leave work early today to do pick up at Morse
Keva- am going to be grateful if we get to go swimming this weekend
Mommy -grateful for the sun on the porch and streaming through our window on a Friday evening

May 6
Tavish- grateful for the double-header and the first baseball game of the season
Mommy- grateful for Keva's can-do attitude for our first big bike ride together up the hill to Tavish's baseball game and riding back home together too! Go Team Fast Poke! Also for Tavish's great baseball coach who is kind and supportive of Tavish and his team.
Keva- grateful for the bandaid we will put on my finger

June 9
Tavish- grateful that his baseball team is doing well in the AAA tournament and that we have made the 1/4 finals! (so far)
Daddy- grateful for nice weather at the baseball park: no rain and not too hot!
Keva- grateful for going to baseball park where Mommy pushed me on the swing

July 24
Tavish- grateful for Brickworks camp!
Daddy- grateful for Mommy planning so many fun adventures for Tavish & Keva this summer
Keva- grateful that I had a fire today and that we get to ride bikes tomorrow and going to Riverdale pool! (Brickworks Camp week)

Keva is 6

It was a celebration that lasted a few days - going from five to six is a BIG deal, you know!

Birthday 'Loot Bags'

Birthday Lady with Lemonade Loot

Scooter!

MOMENTS: Sweet and Silly Six Year Old

We had a birthday dessert and a movie in the backyard with Grandpa Mike to kick off the festivities. This event introduced the scooter into Keva's life. Then, her birthday party starting with a swim followed by playground time at Regent Park with her friends. Dinner was her choice - sushi of course with Kimberley and Isabel. The celebrations ended on Keva's actual birthday with yet more presents and another round of singing with cupcakes! She is loved and is well celebrated - all six years of her! Happy Birthday, Keva.

The Big Bed Shuffle

Ever since Keva's pneumonia in the fall, she's woken in the night in search of someone to sleep with. Her single bed became increasingly less appealing to sleep in for an adult, let alone for an adult plus a child. Enter, double bed to the family! Ahhhh. Turns out, moving a new bed in makes for a lot of sleep-space changes for everyone!

Out with the old!

Preparing the site...

In with the new!

Keva's single+Tavish's single=
BUNK BEDS FOR TAVISH!

Humber Exploration

We took Sweet Ride out for a spring paddle along the Humber and found more than we were expecting!

MOMENT: Graffiti, Nature, and Play

Some amazing artwork under the bridge crossing the Humber. Tavish a strong paddler. Heron. Turtle. Dragonboat. Bridge. Playground. Portage. Family fun.